Every year Tj offers a limited number of private retreats for a select group of highly dedicated couples. In these Ultimate Couples Immersions you will deepen your connection with yourself and each other. Immerse yourselves in learning new ways to communicate, make love, touch each other, and meet each others needs.

Ultimate Private Couples Immersions experiences can range from a weekend intensive in San Francisco to a 10-day retreat in the caribbean. Enjoy the deep life-changing work in the setting of your choice. Intensive experiences are customized to your needs, wants, and desires, and the itinerary will be developed just for you.

Tj also provides a safe container within which to explore and expand your relationship.  When we enter into relationship, we all have the need to love and be loved.  Through conscious communication, conscious loving, and conscious touch,  profound healing can occur and new ways to love and be loved deeply emerge.

 Dakini or Female Tantra Instructor - If desired a female tantra instructor will join us for your journey. This allows great flexibility in customizing healing and learning time. Tj and the dakini may share and demonstrate practices which you may observe and practice. She is also available when it may be beneficial for each of you to receive individual support, guidance, or healing sessions.

Body Worker - Tj has access to several highly skilled professional body workers who can assist you in releasing tightness and body holding. In this space the tantric practices are assimilated even more deeply. Their familiarity with Tj's work enables them to uniquely customize your massage to complement your time in private sessions. 

Yoga Instructor - Under the guidance of one of Tj's specially selected instructors, you will learn and practice additional yoga asanas or postures. These are specifically designed to potentiate your time in private sessions.

Sexual Health/Wellness Specialist - Do either of you suspect you may have hormone imbalance issues? For women, PMS, decreased sex drive, vaginal dryness or menopausal issues are common and these issues can get in the way of experiencing more physical love. For men, changes in libido and erectile function are also common for a variety of reasons, including andropause. This is a great way to ensure that your physical body has the optimal hormonal balance and health for maximum pleasure!  Private and individualized consultation with a clinical and compounding pharmacist includes hormone testing, recommendations, and education. Education is given both privately and as a couple.  Maximize your sexual health!

Typical Schedule

• Early Morning - Wake to warm rays of sunshine. Enjoy a light leisurely breakfast or meet with a practitioner or bodyworker
• Mid-Morning - Meet with Tj for learning/class time and communication 
• Noon - Assimilate learning with quiet time and a light lunch or have a relaxing massage
• Afternoon - Main healing time with Tj
• Early Evening - Enjoy a healthy meal
• Evening - More sessions and practice

ULTIMATE WEEKEND EXPERIENCE

Tj offers private immersion weekends in Southern Oregon, San Francisco, Newport Coast, and San Deigo.

COUPLES PRIVATE WEEKEND EXPERIENCE

Indulge in one evening and two full days of tantric and relationship exploration with Tj, a master communicator and love coach.  Move past your limiting beliefs in a safe environment and expand your ability to love and be loved!  Communication and intimacy skills are taught and practiced in addition to tantra.  $5,000 + expenses. Inquire about availability.

COUPLES PAMPERING WEEKEND EXPERIENCE

Enjoy all the teachings and experiences Tj offers with the addition of one of his highly-skilled practitioners.  Add massage, bodywork, Dakini work, or yoga classes to your experience, or have a full hormone-balancing  consultation to explore your sexual health from a hormonal perspective to round out your weekend.  A truly beautiful experience! Price available upon request.

ULTIMATE WEEKLONG EXPERIENCE

The Ultimate Adventure continues on a 7-day immersion experience. In some of the most luxurious, exotic, and tranquil places on earth, TJ will focus specifically on the areas of growth you desire. A wide menu of options include daily private coaching and/or healing sessions with TJ.

In addition, personalized world-class support is available for you to choose from. TJ has access to an elite group of wellness practitioners including female healers or dakinis, massage therapists, yoga instructors, and hormone specialists. Contact TJ to learn more or email him for availability: tj@tjbartel.com

Week-long Tantra immersions are for those who desire the ultimate vacation where your relationship is center-stage. Allow more time to dive into the depths of your passion. Explore your relationship like never before. Tj will travel to Maui, Cabo, U.S. Virgin Islands, South Beach, Florida or a favorite destination of your choosing.

COUPLES WEEKLONG IMMERSION EXPERIENCE

Are two and a half days not enough for what you need?  Extend your experience to 6-nights and 7-days for a deeper dive into what holds you back from more love in your relationship.  Change the way you give and receive love and intimacy now and forever. Inquire about availability.

COUPLES AUGMENTED WEEKLONG IMMERSION EXPERIENCE

Add a practitioner to Tj's masterful weeklong teachings.  Chill out your hot experience with daily massages, extra sessions, daily bodywork, hormonal balancing, or other pampering options.  Take advantage of this opportunity to really embrace mind, body, and spirit. Inquire about availability.

COUPLES COMPLETE WEEKLONG IMMERSION EXPERIENCE

Live it up!  There's nothing quite like it.  Pamper yourself while changing your life.  On top of a full experience with Tj and his wisdom, receive extra education or pampering with hands-on work.  Talk to Tj about your options.  The sky's the limit! Price available upon request.

HAVE ANOTHER IDEA? CUSTOMIZE YOUR OWN ULTIMATE EXPERIENCE

TEN-DAY CARIBBEAN RETREAT

Transform your relationship in paradise! Indulge in 9 evenings and 10 full days of tantric exploration with Tj, custom tailored to your specific areas of interest. Learn to love like never before. Dive deeper into your intimacy and learn how to really please your partner on the deepest level. Inquire to discuss.

HONEYMOON DELIGHT

Start off your married life with a 6-day, 7-night honeymoon trip designed to create the foundation of a successful and fulfilling lifelong relationship.  Establish communication skills and lovemaking ideas to last a lifetime.  Give your relationship the gift of forever! Inquire to discuss.

ULTIMATE PERSONALIZED RETREAT

Design your own experience.  Make all your dreams come true in your favorite place on earth!  Indulge in a full exploration of tantra and relationship on your terms.  "Imagination is everything. It's life's preview of coming attractions." -Einstein Inquire to discuss.