​Now I have the relationship I always wanted!
I suffered from a broken heart and low self esteem when I contacted Tj. What followed changed my life. Years of sexual abuse and disappointing relationships were lodged in my chakras, holding me back from real love.
Tj held space for me to clear the pain of the past, while gently opening me to my true radiant self. I know self love for the first time in my life! Tj's use of rituals, touch, breathing and communication taught me so much about what it means to be "Tantric."
The best part is that he created a special prayer opening pathways and beckoning my future beloved to enter my life. After three months of sacred clearing with Tj I met the man of my dreams. Tj helped me do my spiritual work so I would be ready. This guy is the real deal.
Lisa, 39

Tj has guided thousands of individuals on their journey toward wholeness, healing, inner peace, and empowerment.


Tj travels throughout the U.S. and Hawaii offering private sessions, teaching seminars as well as teaching Source School of Tantra Seminars with Charles Muir.  Inquire about availability


Receive customized guidance via phone consultations from the comfort of your own home. Bring your strengths, challenges and intentions to a conversation with Tj. Gain clarity around difficult situations and learn ways to move forward as you practice on your own. Intimacy Coaching is $600 per hour with a 30 minute minimum.  Inquire about availability


Private sessions are the deepest and most popular gift Tj offers. It begins with a conversation to learn your strengths, challenges and intentions as an individual and with others. Based on your unique needs and interests, Tj will custom design a fun, practical and highly effective program for your time together.

Then Tj will meet with you personally for a 60 minute adventure. In a safe space, Tj will support you in exploring the dynamics of how you give and receive love. As a result, you will gain tools to dramatically enhance passion, pleasure, and peace. You will have a new way of connecting with others physically, sexually, verbally and energetically.

Private Sessions are $600 for 60 minutes + $600 per hour for additional time. Appointments are typically secured 1-3 months in advance.  Inquire about availability


Are you committed to extraordinary relationship? Each year Tj works privately with a limited number of individuals. These weekend or week-long intensives provide an unparalleled opportunity for in-depth learning and practicing skills to create a lifetime of love. Enter the exclusive private retreat site.

Tj Bartel

Tantric Educator