Every year Tj offers a limited number of private retreats for motivated, dedicated individuals that want to master self-improvement in relationship and love skills. In these Ultimate Immersions you will deepen your connection with yourself in preparation for a partner. Immerse yourself in learning new ways to communicate, make love, touch, and meet yours and others' needs.

Ultimate Private Immersions experiences can range from a weekend intensive in San Francisco to a 10-day retreat in the caribbean.  Enjoy the deep, life-changing work in the setting of your choice. Intensive experiences are customized to your needs, wants, and desires, and the itinerary will be developed just for you.

All sessions are conducted in a profoundly safe and controlled setting with all boundaries fully discussed and honored. 

Dakini or Female Tantra Instructor - If desired a female tantra instructor will join us for your journey. This allows great flexibility in customizing healing and learning time. Tj and the dakini may share and demonstrate practices which you may observe and practice. She is also available when it may be beneficial for you to receive additional support, guidance, or healing sessions.

Body Worker - Tj has access to several highly skilled professional body workers who can assist you in releasing tightness and body holding. In this space the tantric practices are assimilated even more deeply. Their familiarity with Tj's work enables them to uniquely customize your massage to complement your time in private sessions.

Yoga Instructor - Under the guidance of one of Tj's specially selected instructors, you will learn and practice additional yoga asanas or postures as well as white tantra. These are specifically designed to potentiate your time in private sessions.

Sexual Health/Wellness Specialist - Do you suspect you may have hormone imbalance issues? For women, PMS, decreased sex drive, vaginal dryness or menopausal issues are common and these issues can get in the way of experiencing more physical love. For men, decreased sex drive, impotence, or lack of testosterone can prevent a full sexual experience. This is a great way to ensure that your physical body has the optimal hormonal balance and health for maximum pleasure!  Private and individualized consultation with a clinical and compounding pharmacist includes hormone testing, recommendations, and education. Education is given privately.  Maximize your physical sexual health by achieving body balance!

Typical Schedule

• Early Morning - Enjoy a full leisurely breakfast or meet with a practitioner or bodyworker
• Mid-Morning - Meet with Tj for learning/class time and communication 
• Lunch - Assimilate learning with quiet time and a healthy lunch or have a relaxing massage with a practitioner
• Afternoon - Meet with Tj for coaching/meditation/curriculum
• Early Evening - Enjoy a quiet dinner with Tj
• Evening - Private Session with Tj

Ultimate Weekends

Tj offers private immersion weekends in San Francisco, Newport Coast, and San Deigo.

PRIVATE WEEKEND EXPERIENCE JUST FOR YOU

Indulge in one evening and two full days of tantric exploration with Tj, custom tailored to your specific areas of interest. Learn to be loved like never before! Communication and intimacy skills are taught and practiced in addition to tantra. $5,000 + expenses. Inquire about availability.

AUGMENTED PRIVATE WEEKEND EXPERIENCE JUST FOR YOU

Enjoy all the teachings and experiences Tj offers with the addition of one of his highly-skilled practitioners.  Add massage, bodywork, Dakini work, or yoga classes to your experience, or have a full hormone-balancing  consultation to explore your sexual health from a hormonal perspective to round out your weekend.  A truly beautiful experience! Price available upon request.

Week-long 7-day Tantra Immersions The Ultimate Adventures Continues

In some of the most luxurious, exotic, and tranquil places on earth, TJ will focus specifically on the areas of growth you desire. A wide menu of options include daily private coaching and/or healing sessions with TJ.

In addition, personalized world-class support is available for you to choose from. TJ has access to an elite group of wellness practitioners including female healers or dakinis, massage therapists, yoga instructors, and hormone specialists. Contact TJ to learn more or email him for availability: tj@tjbartel.com

Week-long Tantra immersions are for those who desire the ultimate vacation where your relationship is center-stage. Allow more time to dive into the depths of your passion. Explore your relationship like never before. Tj will travel to Maui, Cabo, U.S. Virgin Islands, South Beach, Florida or a favorite destination of your choosing.

7-DAYS OF TANTRA IN PARADISE WITH Tj

Are two and a half days not enough for what you need?  Extend your experience to 6-nights and 7-days for a deeper dive into what holds you back from more love in your life.   Change the way you give and receive love and intimacy now and forever. Inquire about availability.

AUGMENTED EXPERIENCE - 7 DAYS OF TANTRA IN PARADISE

Add a practitioner to Tj's masterful weeklong teachings.  Chill out your hot experience with daily massages, extra sessions, daily bodywork, hormonal balancing, or other pampering options.  Take advantage of this opportunity to really embrace mind, body, and spirit. Inquire about availability.

ULTIMATE EXPERIENCE - 7 DAYS OF TANTRA IN PARADISE

Live it up!  There's nothing quite like it.  Pamper yourself while changing your life.  On top of a full experience with Tj and his wisdom, receive extra education or pampering with hands-on work.  Talk to Tj about your options.  The sky's the limit! Price available upon request.

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TEN-DAY CARIBBEAN ULTIMATE EXPERIENCE

Transform your relationship with yourself in paradise! Indulge in 9 evenings and 10 full days of tantric exploration with Tj, custom tailored to your specific areas of interest. Learn to love like never before. Dive deeper into your intimacy and learn how to really please your future partner on the deepest level. Inquire to discuss.

TEN-DAY EUROPEAN ULTIMATE EXPERIENCE

Transform your relationship in Europe! Indulge in 9 evenings and 10 full days of tantric exploration with Tj, custom tailored to your specific areas of interest. Learn to love like never before. Dive deeper into your intimacy and learn how to really please your future partner on the deepest level. Inquire to discuss.

ULTIMATE PERSONALIZED RETREAT

Design your own experience.  Make all your dreams come true in your favorite place on earth!  Indulge in a full exploration of tantra and relationship on your terms.  Imagine the best birthday present you've ever indulged for yourself! Inquire to discuss.